What defines me?

Cancer , A Dozen Kids , Life, Struggle

The smallest things I seemed to have taken for granted for so long. I couldn’t slow myself down to enjoy them rather. I had tried a garden once. In containers because the landlord wouldn’t allow planting in the ground. He hated flowers even. I took quite a bit of pride in what I had growing …

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My co parenting journey feels more like a nightmare! For the longest time I was hell bent on keeping the man that donated sperm to give me my four oldest kids away. Selfishly I just held so much hate in my heart for that man. I doubted his parenting abilities and had my head set …

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[amazon_link asins=’B01NBRDAOI,0399174826,1454926317,B07D984RS4,1632170965,1856753530,1507204914,B00JK86OAI,1929109539′ template=’ProductCarousel’ store=’buchtelassoci-20′ marketplace=’US’ link_id=’269a74b0-b9d1-11e8-9949-e515c2e3db21′]Lately I have put in a lot of effort to working on myself. It’s hard to prioritize that. Self care is last on my list that is for sure. Since being with Marc I see things differently. It’s almost as though the clouds are lifted. There was these dark clouds …

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Top 10 REASONS I┬áHOME SCHOOL [amazon_link asins=’1942192207,1604187808,1523805927,B076MH68BT,B075H5R1KS,0609805851,0374380201,1305089014,1539313875′ template=’ProductCarousel’ store=’buchtelassoci-20′ marketplace=’US’ link_id=’be58d53f-b456-11e8-9118-dd16b739b1f3′] Fear! School is scary. I mean seriously sending your children to school is no longer safe. The new norm is to have bomb threats on the regular. Normal is preparing for a mass school shooting. My oldest was scared in his desk. One of …

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#Nilesscreampark

[amazon_link asins=’B00C2YV9SO,B00M8NU066,B075F7GQ6H,B077NVPMV2,B00VGQKBX8′ template=’ProductCarousel’ store=’buchtelassoci-20′ marketplace=’US’ link_id=’4d9ff05e-b42f-11e8-8943-2371a6ce40ee’]The kids and I just love going to the local haunted house. It’s become a yearly tradition for us. The Niles Scream Park is our number one choice for many reason but the all time number one being it donates all profits made. It gives and it gives all over …

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Yesterday I had some errands that needed to be done. Picking up medication for kids. Running to donate non perishables for our tickets to the haunted house. Just a bunch of small little task I needed to accomplish. Deciding it wouldn’t take me long I thought I’d leave the boys to their man stuff. Separating …

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My Fozzy Subaru

If you haven’t already read of my Subaru Journey you really should. If you have you know my Subaru is the only car I have ever felt comfortable driving. In fact I am not sure that I have ever even gone the speed limit in any other car. My fears kept me driving like a …

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Marc always makes sure to find fun adventures for us to do when there is a errand to run. Today we were to take my oldest son to my baby brother. He lives about an hour drive from us. He had offered to meet in the middle but Marc had thought we could just drive …

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Phone calls have continued from the kids dads. Did you call friend of court and raise my support? Did child support go up? Apparently they are working two jobs with child support being taken from both. Did they expect friend of court to need my permission to take money owed? Or that I needed to …

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Blogging is my love. Since I was little I loved to write and I loved math. I hated that people were so critical of each other’s writing’s. Worry little about the grammar and more about the message. There is a time and place for perfecting of course but if we criticized less we may be …

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