What defines me?

Cancer , A Dozen Kids , Life, Struggle

Have I raved enough about Marc that everyone knows the man in my life is amazing yet???!!!! Well that man is pretty freaking perfect. So if you haven’t been following from the beginning lets refresh just a bit. Marc and I meet seven and a half months ago through a craig list ad. Lol can you imagine! He was my second craig list date and the first one I had jumped out of the car by the time we hit the stop sign at the end of my street. So the fact that I even went was a shocker as I wasn’t planning to ever go on another of those again! In fact I blew Marc off on our first planned date. That was not planned to be a sleepover of any kind. Somehow Mr. Amazing texted even after the stand up and no reply incident from me to text me while I was severely being beaten. I had just been football tackled into the ground. I still wasn’t sure I could leave my situation or if I wanted to meet another strange craig list man. Then he said it was his bday and he was alone. I am not sure if he had other plans later or what but he came and got me that night and I fell in love that night. I swear it was that first night I knew I would marry him and this would be forever. I got out of my abusive situation within a month and a half because of the courage my love for Marc gave me. At three months in I was given a key to his place. I would go there everyday and clean the man cave. I picked something knew to tackle each week and organized and cleaned for him. When I would leave before he returned from work I would leave him a little love note. After two times of leaving him notes he left me his favorite Cross Pen. I remember thinking wow fancy pen. He also left me a little yellow sticky pad. I had been leaving letters on envelopes and all kinds of scrap paper previously. Before he had left those things for me to use to write his little letters of love I wasn’t sure if men really liked that stuff or if it just looked corny to him. I wasn’t sure if he said he liked them to make me feel good or if I was really making him feel good. I remember him telling me the cost of the Cross Pen and me thinking shit he is leaving this thing with me everyday! I lose everything. He has to replace lighters all the time because I have walked off with them and they then vanished into thin air. (COMPLETELY NOT MY FAULT!)That pen is the ultimate pen. It writes so fancy and smooth lol. I love it. I cherish that it’s here for me to write little letters of love and I would never lose it. He knew that. I soon realized he was hoarding the letters. I would leave them scattered EVERYWHERE! In the snake room, in the basement, on his coffee machine, on the baked goods, in the fridge, in the freezer, on the fish tank, doors, walls, shower, everywhere I had a thought of him I would leave it there and let him know. YES, there are thousands of them! HE keeps every single one of them. On his nightstand right by his head making me feel as good as they make him. WE are so blessed with the love we share! My sleeping beauty is the greatest man to exist. Happy blogging I am off to make his breakfast!

18 thoughts on “Little Letters Of Love

  1. Amber says:

    When are you getting married?!?

    1. daniellemomof8gmailcom says:

      Oh gosh as soon as possible I hope!!! I’ve already popped the question and he said yes!!! Just haven’t set a date to it yet.

      1. Amber says:

        Omg!!! Keep us updated!!! Get married quick, he’s soooo awesome!!! 😁

  2. porngirl3 says:

    Made me tear up. So special. So beautiful. That must have been one hell of a Craigslist ad. Maybe I should have you write me one. Lol. ❤️

    1. daniellemomof8gmailcom says:

      Not even week after I found him Craig list deleted their personal section you no longer can find love there. He did have a good ad and picture 😉😋

  3. Dieter says:

    Lovely story, wish you all the best

  4. So sweet! I used to do that for Jim too. I have been slacking a bit lately!

    1. daniellemomof8gmailcom says:

      Awe!!! I write on the mirror to him too he said that’s something you and jim share as well. 😍

  5. Wow, many people don’t realize how important it is for men to feel loved an appreciated this way.

    1. daniellemomof8gmailcom says:

      No they don’t! When he is shown this much he returns it ten fold!

  6. Teresa says:

    This is so sweet! I want love letters!

  7. I never knew this about craigslist lol! I met my husband online and we have been married for almost 12 years! I was 16 when we met and 18 when we got married!

  8. Kippi says:

    Being in LOVE is the best!!!!

  9. Cindy says:

    Ahhh. I am the same way. I love leaving little notes for my fiancé. I’m happy you were able to get out of that abusive relationship and find something real and someone who appareciated your worth. You’re very strong to have loved again ❤️ It worked out!

  10. Angelina says:

    This is so sweet. I met my husband online as well. Well actually I met I’m on an app called Coffee Meets Bagel. He sounds really great.

  11. Natalie says:

    I love a good “how we met” story !😍🤗 so sweet

  12. Amy says:

    I love little post it notes. When my husband and I were dating, we covered each other’s apartments in encouraging post its. 😀

  13. Aadya says:

    So Sweet of him !!!Such cute way of showing how much he loves !!! All the very best

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